I coordinated this walk with Marsha’s Always Write blog and her “Writer’s Quotes Wednesday Writing Challenge” (WQWWC). Here is her post. I invite everyone to return throughout the week because those who accept the challenge will pingback or list it in the comments. Also, feel free to accept her challenge.
Click the above video for sounds of waves for a background while reading.
I like walking on the beach. It is good for the mind, body, and soul – a refreshing on my feet.
I always start and end these walks with the same phrase. “Like” is the first important verb, but I could use “love” instead. Not only is love a stronger emotion than like, love may be one of the strongest human emotions.
Love is a complicated word – a word having many meanings in English. Love is a word that other languages use multiple words signifying different contexts of love. For instance, Philia, Eros, Xenia, and Agape in Greek are all love in English – but used differently. After all, we have a different love for parents, siblings, family, pets, places, friends, lovers, and activities we enjoy. At least the Greeks have multiple words for different meanings.
Love is something everyone desires, but some people don’t know the meaning of love, how to love, or willing to accept love.
Love is not supernatural – but rather an all-consuming natural instinct-driven from a place deep within our brain. Love can be an addiction, but love is not about control and possession.
For lasting love, we initially look to temperament, outside mannerisms, appearance, and personality. Some want intellect – others want physical beauty to serve as eye candy by their side. Niceness, trust, honesty, and sincerity eventually come into play. To some, so does generosity and empathy.
Love resides in the brain, even though we say the heart – yet we feel love from head to fingers, toes, and everything in between.
Love will keep us together and make one go crazy. After all, love is a wild card that is blind and defiles the rules while attacking the entire body. So when the heartbreaks, we feel pain throughout the body. Not a physical pain – but one of a conflict between body chemistry and the brain.
Love is accidental, intentional, and uncontrollable – even an addiction. Yet, love can grow, mature, and sustain without limits. We can fall in love and fall out of love – but which is easier? But if love is the answer, what is the question?
Whereas lust and attraction are temporary, transforming them into love is an adventurous process involving many emotions and obstacles along the way and without a guarantee.
Love is fiery and calm; deep but never shallow. Love is free, a promise, ravenous, tolerance, acceptance, respect, interactive, exhaustive, then inexhaustible, endless, ultimate expression, sensual, emotional, intellectual, and imaginative. In the end, love is just love – but the question is, to what heights will it rise?
Love may start with the tease of a Cha-Cha, deliver a message in a Rumba, grow with a smooth Waltz, raise the temperature in Tango, then culminate with the sensual Bolero.
Love is a work of art – a personal canvas to be jointly painted with one brush – a challenging collaboration of patience and shared goals requiring effort, critical thinking, problem-solving, and give-and-take discussions.
Love is a journey of continuous discovery with many intertwined paths meandering through life. The paths of love involve patience, trust, hope, and commitment. The paths of love involve kindness, compassion, generosity, affection, helping, and sharing. The paths of love involve obstacles and the forbidden – egos, selfishness, and vanity – safety, dependability, and reliability.
Love is the notes on a page of a Rachmaninoff symphony the conductor is ready to lead. The excited and anxious anticipation of the first note, but without knowledge of the music ahead. Love is like the music transforming the listener in the audience to become part of the orchestra’s music.
Love is a bare tree in the spring full of buds and a bunch of flowers ready to bloom. Love is a beautiful rose – a visual feast with sweet fragrance – yet beware of the thorn.
Love holds people together during happy times and the sad – times of successes and failures – times of being together and being apart.
Love touches everything in us. Love is like the water of the sea – fluid – an emotion flowing between entities. Love is an encompassing need embedded within to keep us together. Love is the key component in the evolution of a relationship. Such powerful stuff for something that is blind.
Love is always thinking of someone, a look of the eyes, a pounding heart, the rushing blood, the light strokes of fingers, and lips touching – all delivering to the body a special glow. Love is a powerful experience that is biologically-linked to pain – so I wonder: Why do opposites attract?
Love is a tempest – just ask Romeo and Juliet, Antony and Cleopatra, Lancelot and Guinevere, Rhett and Scarlet, Adonis and Venus, and many more. But can anyone say which is easier: Falling in love or falling out of love?
True love may find us when we least expect it – at the least expected time, place, and circumstance. Although technology brings people together, individuals still determine the standards and decisions for love. The question is how, where, and when we will find someone we understand and who understands us.
Other than romantic, love has many meanings. There is a love for music, food, places, art, activities, friends, the night sky, a campfire, and just a single rose. We find love in many personal actions; such as care, respect, patience, trust, and sympathy – in friends embracing after a long separation. Love is also a soft spot, a penchant, and an appreciation for something, someplace, or someone.
Love is complicated, and I know there is still more to say – and the beach here is long. Although love is the wind, waves, sun, and sand, it is time to end these lovely thoughts to let my mind cool. After all, I like walking on the beach because it is good for the mind, body, and soul – and refreshing on my feet.
See what other bloggers have written about love
- Love, Sweet Love (story and poem by a visitor here)
- My Love (poem)
- Colors of Love (photos and essay by a visitor here)
- Our Love… (poem)
- My First Love (story)
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You’ve captured the essence of love beautifully here. It really is all compassing and at times defies words, it just is. Wishing you a world of love in your life Frank. ❤️
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Miriam,
Wow … Thank you for the wonderful and kind words, which have started my morning. … and great line … Love as “all-compassing and at times defies words. It just is.” Great words to start a string of comments. 🙂
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Amazing post! You’ve said more in this one post than I’m going to say all week 😂
You asked for a ping 😉
https://wp.me/paJkfL-Z8
I hope it works.
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Mouse,
First of all, an official welcome to a first-time walker on the sands of my beach … and all the way from Australia! Glad you enjoyed this walk regarding love. There is so much to say about it, I have volume 2 for later. Thanks for the link to your wonderful poem! I encourage readers to stop by!
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Thank you for the warm welcome.
While I hail from Australia I live in Finland. There’s not much in the way of beaches here, and what we do have is covered in a few feet of snow.
I’ve been reading all your posts recently. Nice ti have a few minutes escape to warmer climates, if only in my mind.
I look forward to what’s in store.
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Oh wow … I an Aussie in Finland. Whew …. now those are two quite different places. Well, at least it turns of geography-related things. I think it’s wonderful, but I wonder about the similarities and differences between the two cultures. (I find that interesting), Thanks for reading some of the past walks. Escape is a good word of what I try to do here – although I usually say relaxation and provoking thought – so thanks for the ide!
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Polar opposites 😉
From the location, to the people and the way of life. Its taken some getting used to.
My own walks on imaginary beaches are an eacape. With snow and three kids under five, relaxation and beaches don’t mix.
Loving your work. You will see me often.
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Wow … it’s been that different. But I have the feeling that goodness is a commonality, but shown in a different way. How many years have you been in Finland? Glad you enjoy these walks – and I have a Finn collaborator on the 20th!
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There is good and bad everywhere, they are universal, but I’m a resilient rodent.
About six years in Finland now, and I’d say at least six more.
I look forward to the walks. Interested to see that collab.
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No question that good and bad are everywhere – but I hold on to my belief that the majority of the world is good. I’m posting Tuesdays, Thursdays, & Saturdays … all during your morning. About the first 30 or so were beach related – but now topics will be wide-ranging.
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I have the same belief. Whether it holds true is another matter.
I usually reply to messages in the mornings and if there is time I get to reading. Either way, I’ll be around for your treks.
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We don’t know if it’s true or not, but no-way we can rely on the news to tell us. I’m confident that the majority of Iraqis, Russians, and others in countries with dictators and hostile governments are good.
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You are a busy woman, Mouse. We moved to the mountains, which is a different nice than the beach. I ought to start a Mountain Reflections, site, Frank. I don’t really know the topography of Finland. What do you do for fun there with three small children?
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Marsha … oH my … you know The Mouse?
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Only through your post on love, Frank. I spent a bit of time reading all the comments and responding to the ones who linked. Mouse was one of those. 🙂
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FYI: Another link participant way at the bottom.
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Yes, I caught that. She is the hostess of the Lens-Artist Challenge this week. Her post fit beautifully so I told her we’d both be honored to have her link. 🙂 If that’s the one you mean. Otherwise, I need to take another peek. 🙂
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Excellent!
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Not much with my wild children.
It’s mostly a flat country, rocky. But it is called the land of 10000 lakes and that seems about right from what I’ve seen.
Our house backs onto the Helsinki national forest so we have great hiking trails. Foxes and deer, wild strawberries and blueberries. Every kind of mushroom on God’s fungal earth. So hiking and foraging are big pastimes.
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You can eat my share of the fungal forest, Mouse. The lakes, strawberries, foxes and deer sound lovely, though, 🙂
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It truly is. There’s something magical about it all.
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I do love the fun of mushrooms. Here are a few more pictures of that Enchanted Fairy Garden in Delaware. https://tchistorygal.net/2016/12/04/travel-easy-deleware-paths/
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Fairytale like.
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My fairy tale would not have fungi, but you are right. Have you seen my post about the magic fungi? https://tchistorygal.net/2020/09/18/haiban-illusion-of-magic/
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Ah Love. What a great subject. Valentine’s Day is arriving soon. Nice post Frank.
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Peggy,
Bingo – With Valentine’s Day approaching, the timing was good. Well, I also followed Marsha’s lead. Glad you enjoyed this trip across the sands of love.
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A lot of men have no idea what love is – Ha. I guess you are an exception Frank. Good job.
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I’m not sure I know … but at least I know it is deeper and more complicated than many think.
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Love is indeed all that–and more. Thanks, Frank!
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Merril,
“All that and more” … that says a lot. Perfect.
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Love is so many good things. Nicely done.
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Dan,
So many good things, it could be an endless topic. I already have a second walk about it for the future, and I envision a third from the comments.
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Frank that was so beautifully said. When I think of love I think of my parents hand-in-hand not needing to say anything to each other. They just knew. That intensity makes me weep.
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Pam,
Outstanding!!!!! … . Your words created a wonderful picture about love … and cheers to your parents!
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Wonderful post that captures the tumult and nuances of love. This, especially, caught my attention: “Whereas lust and attraction are temporary, transforming them into love is an adventurous process involving many emotions and obstacles along the way and without a guarantee.” So very, very true!
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Laurie,
“Tumult and nuances” says a lot – well done! I’ve got the feeling another walk will come from the comments. 🙂 Glad you enjoyed this and thanks for sharing!
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Another beautiful video, Frank. The custard had to wait 🙂 🙂 Sometimes your words drift off into the ether, but some stay with me. I liked these – a personal canvas to be jointly painted with one brush
Such powerful stuff for something that is blind.
See you on Thursday!
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Jo,
Now that’s quite the praise … that is, the post causing dessert to wait. I’m deeply touched and honored! Thank you, thank you! Thanks for sharing your favorite line too … and I love your closing comment about powerful stuff for something that is blind. 🙂 Glad you enjoyed the video! Thanks for watching. … How was the custard?
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Excellent, thanks! Accompanied by apple crumble 😊🍏💕
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Excellent … now I’m dreaming of a bit of port.
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😉🍷🧀💕
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Well Frank, not sure there is anything left for us to say! You’ve covered Love in more ways than I could have imagined and quite eloquently too I might add. Your collaboration with Marsha will, I’m sure, generate a terrific response. I look forward to seeing the next step!
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Tina,
Thank you. There so much to say about love, one walk isn’t enough (I have v2 in draft mode) … and I envision v3 coming from reader comments of v1 and v2. Meanwhile, this is my first time hosting for Marsha. She’s been good to me, so it’s important for me to support her. Plus, I can see hosting again.
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Thanks, Frank! It’s been a pleasure having you host.
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My pleasaure.
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Very good and informative post! Thanks for the shout out!
dwight
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Dwight,
Welcome to my little world, and thanks for your contributions on the links. I invite you to return for another beach walk.
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Thank you very much! I will.
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I can only imagine how difficult it must have been to write this one, Frank. ‘Love’ is one of those multi-layered topics that “everybody” thinks they know about, but when it comes to putting those thoughts into words and sentences, there’s a tendency to underestimate the length and breadth and height of the matter. Well done, my friend!!
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Debbie,
I agree because writing this wasn’t easy – mainly because of the wide range of meanings we place on the word … and as you say, the multi-layers of meanings. It’s easy to stray off course – maybe that’s a reason I have volume 2 for the future.
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Good! Such a broad topic deserves another post!
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.. and maybe a third.
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Love is one of those words thrown around and over-used. “Awesome” is another. And don’t get me start on the use of exclamation points online, something I’m guilty of sometimes as well. But I digress. Good job of talking about the different sorts of love. You can also love someone or something but not always like them or it. That makes things even more complicated. 🙂
I love discussing things like this. 🙂 ❤
janet
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Janet,
Agree, “love” is thrown around and overused. On the other hand, that does show its wide range of meanings. Maybe other languages have it right with different words for love. Glad you enjoyed this walk, but part of wants to say, AWESOME comment, Janet!!!!!!! … but I won’t.
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Too late!!!!!!!!!! 🙂 There are other examples of multiple words for thing we have one word for. For instance, the Eskimos have a number of words for snow, depending on the type, I imagine. The problem, if there is one, with one words for many meanings is being sure that the listener/reader knows which meaning you’re using.
On a humorous note, I once did a post about using words other than “Great post”, which were two words I read a lot in my comments. If you use an online thesaurus, it’s easy to find other words. Ironically, a number of the comments were…you guessed it. “Great post.” I’m not sure they were all kidding.
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Thanks for the tidbit bit about Eskimos. Wondering, is their language called Eskimilian? Funn about the post about Great post. At least you know I was kidding!
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I did know that, Frank. I did another one on putting a comma before or before and after the name of someone you’re addressing directly such as: Frank, stop using so many exclamation points. Or: Please, Frank, stop using so many exclamation points. Most of the comments were along these lines: “Great post Janet.” Ha, ha. Too funny.
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Now that’s funny! … but your points are good. Better yet, gotta love a sense of humor. Especially in today’s crazy world.
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That is too funny, Janet. They probably were kidding. Maybe they were spam. “Great” share! 🙂
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They definitely weren’t spam. I can only hope they were kidding, but based on what I saw in comments elsewhere, I’m not sure that was true. 😂
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Well, it made a delightful story. Perfect for tea time. 🙂
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It’s either quite humorous or very sad or maybe a bit of both. 🙂
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Maybe, but I would err on the side of humor. The state of language is fluid and iconic to say the least. Some people might have just put a smiley face! 🙂
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I’m very guilty of !!!, “awesome” and “love.” You’d think after all these years I’d develop a vocabulary!
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I fall into that as well. Sometimes I bring up an online thesaurus and leave that tab open for reference or I try to say something specific about the photo or post. So easy to use the same words all the time.
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I refer to the online dictionary and thesaurus even if just to spell the word, “thesaurus.” When I started writing and blogging, I discovered what a poor vocabulary I use and how deplorable my spelling is.
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I did a ping somewhere it went but where I do not know: https://myforever.blog/2021/02/09/did-you-know/
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Myrna,
Welcome first-time beach walker. Thanks for the link … and the pingback came through. You didn’t see it because I have to approve them first – but it’s here. Did you come over from Marsha’s blog?
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Your ping worked perfectly, Myrna! 🙂
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Yes, I did see it — That would be an interesting challenge to write a poem about WordPress PINGS.
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There you go, Myrna. I think that is a lovely challenge. Please write one for my post on Wednesday!!!!
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Love has so many facets I’ve never taken it on as something to write about…..congratulations to you for tackling it so very very well. Love is also blind – I discovered that with my first marriage but even that experience taught me much about love preparing me for greater and better things with eyes wide open!
Pam
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Pam,
Thank you. I admit that this walk was not an easy one to write. So much to say, so little time & space – plus the tendency to ramble and stray off course. So I tried to focus it, and leave other ideas for a different walk. One thing for sure, love is a learning experience, so thanks for sharing a bit of yours.
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Ah, Frank… indeed, love is the wind, waves, sun and sand… sigh. A post to love!
Yamas!
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Marina,
Definitely all around us … surely not forget, as the song say … Love is in the air. 🙂 Yamas!
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Oh, yes!!
Yamas!!!!
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It’s wonderful that you show the inexhaustibility of the meaning of love. It seems that when love is tested, it really shows its true colors. I look forward to Part 2, Frank. Your beach walks provide hours of contemplation, not only for you. 🙂
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Mary Jo,
Thank you for the kind words. One of my goals with each walk is provoking thought, so your confirmation makes me smile. I simply can’t thank you enough for that. Love is inexhaustible … perfect … and just like the word, it is also exhausting.
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I don’t know, Frank, I’m getting exhausted just looking at all the work you and all your readers put into this post about love. This is hours and hours of love!
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Your posts always make me think of a song. Today my mental background music while reading was the sweeping intro of “Love is a Many Splendored Thing.”
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Sarah,
That great that songs come to your head when on a beach walk .. and thank you for sharing that with me. So to you, I give you the smooth tones of Nat King Cole. https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=hnPbneUdjcs
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We might think or imagine we understand Love to whatever extent and then there is more available to be found, experienced, understood in how expansive it is. You have very well captured so many facets of it.
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PD,
As usual, great points. I know the continuum of love really has no end – that is, it’s more like infinity because there can always be more. At least in the walk, I capture many facets of love. Thank you!
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Love this Frank!!! Love a splendid thing!
Not clear where you want a ping back or my url.. etc? I see you added some..
Love is your post with Marsha! 💖. I’ll visit tomorrow too! ❤️
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Cindy,
Love is a splendid thing … and if you scroll up a few comments in my reply to Sarah, you will find a link to a Nat King Cole version. 🙂 … In terms of linking here, you can just paste the line in the reply to this comment.
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Hi Cindy, So fun to see you here at the beach. I’ll look forward to reading your post about love, too. 🙂
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It’s my pleasure of course Marsha!!! I’ll see you tomorrow right? I’m not sure which one Frank is refering too but feel free to look through my post after tomorrow and let me know which one you would like to see.. ❤️💖💖💖💖 🤗🙏
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ok, see you tomorrow. 🙂
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Oh bother.. I accidentally posted tomorrow’s post tonight… I don’t dare change it or things my go haywire. On the plus.. now you’ll see all my “love” posts.. lol
See you tomorrow! 💖
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See you soon. I’m off to the dentist now.
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Have a great time … and Enjoy!
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Oh… sorry!!! yikes
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Your love post was adorable. I’m in awe of how you worked that out together and even sang the song you wrote. It’s so unique and you’ve done a couple of collaborative posts like that since I’ve been reading your blog. Well done. 🙂
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Oh thanks so Marsha!!! I know it was fun to have a thought and just pull it off without practice etc. I’m soooo glad you enjoyed it. Thanks for letting me know. I so much appreciate it. Collabs are never my intention because of time but if they can come about like this then I’m all in.. You’re the best.
Thanks and Happy Valentine’s Day Marsha 💖🌷
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Wonderful post Frank.
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Rupali … thank you!
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Love is or should be the foundation of a truly human society? Do you agree Frank?
In friendship
Michel
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Michel,
Yes – love is an important foundation. But for me, in society, it starts with respect .. .therefore, without respect, love cannot form.
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And that was last week’s topic, Frank. https://tchistorygal.net/2021/02/03/wqwwc-10-how-important-is-respect-and-courtesy-in-life-colleenchesebro-forestwoodfolk-charli_mills/ Your readers can feel free to continue to link to that topic as well. 🙂 I think you are right, Frank, you can’t even begin to love if you don’t respect the person. 🙂
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I say ‘love’ for everything, I should be more careful and only use this word when I really mean it, when it’s something really worth of it!
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Elizabeth,
Love your comment … sorry – I couldn’t resist. 🙂 Yes and no. After all, our one word (as opposed to other languages) turns it into a catch-all …. so then it comes down to context and tone. On the other hand, I see what you mean.
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I do that too, Elizabeth. I get into habits and then the words lose their meanings. Did you see Sustainabilitea’s comment about “great post?” It was hilarious. As a teacher, I walked around the class and commented on the work the students did and I said “Good job,” so often that the kids started imitating me. 🙂
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Beautiful, Frank! Isn’t it wonderful to know that love is accessed from a variety of viewpoints and experiences, and isn’t entirely limited to romance. I have been so fortunate to have been surrounded by love my entire life, beginning with good parents, and I even had loving grandparents until I was 50-years old. I have been very fortunate in my life. Add to that the many things I enjoy…and I do typically say I “love” a good sunset, cookies, flowers…and of course, the ocean! 🙂
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Debra,
Thanks for sharing a bit about your perspective. I especially like – Love is accessed from a variety of viewpoints and experiences and isn’t entirely limited to romance. – There something about that statement that is both simple and complex – well, and hard to explain. Well, that’s love, too! Thanks for sharing a bit of your personal story.
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Love is… so many things. And nothing. And everything.
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Dale,
Ding ding ding! I like your thoughts!!!
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You got through it, Frank! The #WQWWC book of love! That reminds me of the song that is coming to my head, “Who Wrote the Book of Love by the Monotones.” https://binged.it/3oZMsnK I will reblog this tomorrow morning. 🙂 Thanks again for hosting. 🙂
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Marsha,
Yes, you did … and have you reblog, there may be more to come. That is such a great song – and back to seemingly a simpler time. Here’s another Book of Love for you, but through something that I enjoy … well, pre-Covid. https://youtu.be/fxxUY2cLVm8 …. ‘m guessing you know the song.
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WOW, and that’s Indiana today. What an amazing show, Her dress was unbelievably flexible to stay with her. I worried about her! I didn’t know the song, sorry to say. I’m probably too old. I used to be a roller skate dancer in my youth, and outfits were so important. I got kicked off the floor once because my skating panties showed. Different era and not in the prudish state of Indiana, but the liberal state of Oregon. LOL
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I wish that, as in other languages, we had different words for different kinds of love. Too easy to say, I love you, and find yourself alone cos that’s commitment & he’s off at a run, yet all you meant was, Wow, I’m happy with you.
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Crispina,
Agree. Now I’m thinking about how many different uses there are for love – but I don’t want to try to figure that out. 🙂
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I do know I feel the same physical sensations for a person who *pleases me* as I feel when watching a thunderstorm, or sunrise, or rainbow. I’ve tried to analyse that… cos I’ve an analytical mind
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Love is many things…and these days very complicated. At least romantic love.
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Monika,
I imagine these days, the only uncomplicated love are the ones chanting, I love Covid!!!
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Uncomplicated love these days for me is with the 4-legged sect! At least there’s no game playing other than toy retrieving. Gotta love their devotion and loyalty without power games.
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Great point. Cheers to the love for pets and the love they return.
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👍🏻💙👍🏻
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Once upon a time someone told me that love was action aimed at spiritual growth. I like that definition and find myself thinking of it today. And isn’t that lovely?
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Ally,
That definitely is a good one to ponder, so thanks for sharing it!
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You could also say, love means never having to cancel your therapy sessions. And seriously, I mean that in the most loving of ways.
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Marc,
LMAO … this is so classic you, I’m not sure if I don’t want to respond or just blab then walk away.
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Haha!
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Love is in the air and in your wonderful post, Frank. As the Beatles once sang, “All you need is love.” Where would we be without it? 😘
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Sylvia,
Good points. The Beatles reference is a good one, but do you realize you referenced a second song title. https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=NNC0kIzM1Fo …. plus a host of songs about without love!
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Yes, it was deliberate, Frank. I so remember Peter and Gordon’s “World Without Love” from way back in 1964. Brings back lots of memories from the past. 😙
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Then, well done! … and World Without Love is another excellent choice.
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There’s a song for every occasion, Frank. 😅
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Have you thought about doing your concerts again?
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Not even a thought. This place is solely focused on beach walks. Then again, what if I came up with a walk that could do that? Hmmmm ….
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I love that song, Sylvia. We would be lost without love. I’m not sure that ALL you need is love, but it’s a great start. Have a great weekend, my friend. 🙂
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Thanks so much, Marsha. Hope yours was a great weekend. 🤗
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Yes, we had company from CA.
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Trying to leave a ping back but now I need another lesson.. will try again..
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Just copy the URL and then paste it into a comment here.
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Here goes nothing
https://uniquelyfitblog.com/2021/02/12/cant-live-with-them-%f0%9f%92%96-cant-live-without/
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Cheers Cindy … the copy/paste of your URL worked. Thank you!
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Oh yay.. thanks Frank!! 💖💖❤️❤️
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You have tumbled love out on the beach like footsteps for us to follow. Lovely! So many favorites but I especially liked the comparison to dancing. Perhaps because I fell in love with Husband on a dance floor but neither of us enjoyed dancing. Happy Valentine’s Day! Great post.
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Jo,
My apologies for missing your comment from several days ago. That is so funny about your connection to love and the dance floor. Glad that my connection of different dances sparked that thought. Thanks for sharing and delivering a chuckle.
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Happy Valentines, Frank!
I love this post, then again I love love.
I want you to know I have been a bit absent, as I had an accident. Sparing details, I’m bed resting most of the time.
Being at my desk, or having my laptop in bed is not conducive to my comfort.
Although it’s not where I hurt myself, the whole thing is a pain in the butt.
The music is beautiful, love.
So, based on a line in this post, here’s for you https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=_QNEf9oGw8ox
Cheers! 🍷
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Resa,
Happy Valentine’s Day to you. OH no … I didn’t hear about the accident. Hang in there and take your time. Bloggers aren’t going anywhere. AND – when you get a chance, make sure you see walk #40-Cold because you know the collaborator. Meanwhile, back to this walk, glad you enjoyed it and thanks for the captain and Toni. My wife and I went to a Halloween party once dressed as them. Thanks for letting me know!
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🍷 Thank you for caring to know!
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I’m in awe of your post, Frank. I love the emotions of love and I certainly didn’t know that the Greeks have so many synonyms for it. Then there was the tempestuous love story of Rhett and Scarlet (brought back memories of both the book and the movie) , love as a symphony, love as a dance , love which leaves you with a fierce longing . I’m spellbound. I’ve read it twice and I’m going to give it another go, such is the power of your words. Beautiful!
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Sheetal,
Welcome first-time beach walker to the sands of my personal beach. Glad you enjoyed this journey about love – and for reading it a second time .. and thanks for sharing some of your favorite moments. I invite you to look around at other walks that may capture your interest. My format is the same, but the theme changes. A special thanks to Marsha for bringing us together and I hope to see you again here and at your blog. 🙂
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Thank you Frank for this warm welcome . This has been a serendipitous meeting thanks to Marsha and Lens Artist Challenge . In fact I had heard of your blog from Jo of restless Jo but now that I’m following your blog , I look forward to many more interesting reflections and food for thought.
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Thank you and the same from me. Jo is a treasure. I know your post was answering a different challenge, but I agree with Marsha – it fits with hers. FYI: I will be collaborating with Tina here on the last Saturday of this month … I’ve already collaborated with Ann-Christine, plus we are working on another one. So … as you see – we have other connections … plus the wonderful Jo!
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Will keep my eyes peeled for it 🤩😊
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🙂 … FYI: I post Tuesdays, Thursdays, and Saturdays … all at 1 AM (Eastern US) … so the latest walk is up now … so come on over!
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Beatles and love and a glimpse into my world. Link shared . https://sheetalthinksaloud.wordpress.com/2021/02/13/lens-artists-challenge-135-glimpse-into-your-world/
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Sheetal,
Thanks for participating in Marsha’s challenge … and your post demonstrates the low you have for travel, music, and your land.
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Hello, Marsha encouraged me to share my post from this week. She said it would go well with yours. I think she’s right! ☺️ https://simplysage.org/2021/02/14/color-me-red/
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Alexandria,
Welcome .. and a friend of Marsha is a friend of mine. Plus, when I was visiting you, I noticed we have some common links. Your post is perfect for Marsha’s theme. She does them every Wednesday, but sometimes uses hosts (like me – but this was my first). Here’s her schedule. https://tchistorygal.net/writers-quotes-wednesday-writers-challenge/ … Meanwhile, glad you enjoy your first beach walk here, and I hope you return. FYI: I also collaborate with photographers.
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Frank – you really made this subject readable, enjoyable and maybe even loved. I almost never use the word for another human being, except for my children. The love for my children is endless and deep. I would die for them. That is the strongest I can say. Love is a topic I would never try to talk about or explain. My deepest respect for you – because you did it with the honour.
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Leya,
Wow … I very touched at your words. To me, of all the comments written on my pages here, this one may touch me the most. Simply thank you … and thanks for sharing a bit about your love for your children.
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Dear Frank,
Hello! I am a friend of Marsha, Sue Dreamwalker, Cheryl (Gulf Coast Poet) and Cindy Georgakas.
Marsha has commented to me in her post entitled “#Sunday Stills: Everything Is Coming Up Roses” as follows after I introduced her to a special link about Chinese New Year:
Specifically, I would like to point ot you that there is a close connection between love and Chinese New Year as follows.
Chinese New Year of 2021 begins on the 12th of February and lasts for 15 days. Its third days coincides with Valentine’s Day. This double celebration represents a culmination of the Eastern Culture (emphasizing Relationship and Kinship 關係和親情) meeting and amalgamating with the Western Culture (emphasizing Romance and Love 浪漫和愛情). It provides a good indicator and macrocosmic example of the increased intensification and extensive interpenetration of economic, social and cultural practices and relations as globalization continues to expand in the 21st century. This can be both seen and heard in the dynamic results of musical hybridizations and cross-cultural collaborations, as demonstrated by my post entitled “🦅 SoundEagle in Chinese New Year Celebration, Spring Festival, Lion Dance, Food, Ornaments, Traditional Culture and Architecture 🏮🎋🦁🥗🎐㊗️⛩” published at https://soundeagle.wordpress.com/2020/02/02/soundeagle-in-chinese-new-year-celebration-spring-festival-lion-dance-food-ornaments-traditional-culture-and-architecture/
Please enjoy this very extensive post to your heart’s content. Happy Chinese New Year to you, Marsha, Sue Dreamwalker, Cheryl (Gulf Coast Poet) and Cindy Georgakas! It is the year of the Golden Ox.
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Sound Eagle,
Welcome first-time beach walk on the sands of my personal beach. You’ve listed the names of good people, so cheers to the more goodness in the world I saw you post on Marsha’s, so I’m happy you linked here! Wow … quite extensive! FYI: I was born in the year of the snake – and actually there are only a few hours left in my birthday.
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Dear Frank,
Thank you for your reply. Happy Birthday to you and Many Happy Returns! 🎉🎂
As you can see, our very dear friend Marsha has visited my said post about Chinese New Year and submitted two lovely comments there. I look forward to your feedback there too.
I particularly like your following three paragraphs:
You have written about Love in such a captivating manner, and I hope that you have a good time during Valentine’s Day celebrated last Sunday. In other words, you have bestowed on us such lovely and sweet words uttered with a gentle, sensuous lilt.
Therefore, I would like to echo and resonate with your spirit of Love with my special post at https://soundeagle.wordpress.com/2013/02/14/soundeagle-in-love-and-dove-art-and-heart-on-valentines-day-with-gifts/
The said post is entitled “🦅 SoundEagle in Love and Dove, Art and Heart on Valentine’s Day with Gifts 🎁💝🕊💌💘”, where it contains my graphic designs as well as my poem. And I am very curious about what you think of my said post, and would be delighted to receive your feedback there. Please enjoy!
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Sound Eagle,
Thank you for the birthday greeting that I very much appreciate – especially with only a little more than 2 hours left in my day. One question. Where are you located? I like knowing the whereabouts of my birthday wishes.
Thank you for the kind words about this beach walk. Sometimes the words flow right, well … and there are times they don’t. After all, I don’t consider myself to be a writer – simply a person who enjoys writing. I will visit your love post tomorrow. Thank you for the invitation. Meanwhile, I invite you to visit other beach walks of the topics of your choice.
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Australia.
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Wonderful, welcome, and thank you.
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Dear Frank,
Please be informed that you might need to use a desktop or laptop computer with a large screen to view the rich multimedia contents available for heightening your multisensory enjoyment at my blog, which could be too powerful and feature-rich for iPad, iPhone, tablet or other portable devices to handle properly or adequately.
In addition, since my blog contains advanced styling and multimedia components plus animations, it is highly recommended to read my posts and pages directly in my blog so that you will be able to see and experience all of the refined and glorious details. Hence, it is prudent to refrain from viewing my blog in the WordPress Reader, which tends to ignore or strip away some styling and formatting components, and also fails to display animations, all of which are aplenty in my posts and pages, which will look very different and even improper or amiss in the WordPress Reader.
Happy reading!
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Dear Frank,
Furthermore, in reciprocating and resonating with the spirit of your blog about “walking on the beach” and your profound message of “Love” in all its diversity and manifestations, I would like to introduce you to another post of mine that is rich in seaside imageries and environmental awareness entitled “🦅 SoundEagle in Art, Aphorism and Paramusic 🏝”, available to you at https://soundeagle.wordpress.com/2012/09/18/soundeagle-in-art-aphorism-and-paramusic/
Given that your blog is titled “Beach Walk Reflections: Thoughts from thinking while walking”, you will find this said post to be very fascinating, informative and perhaps even ground-breaking, for the post deals with many thought-provoking concepts and challenges traditional ideas of what constitute music and art, including the very idea of soundwalk, appreciation of Nature, and environmental philosophy. I welcome your feedback at the said post.
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This is beautiful, Frank. I somehow missed it the first time around. Thank you for linking to it. I might argue about love coming from the brain. It seems they (the scientists) are finding that our hearts (and guts) have minds of their own. 😀
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Hi again, Frank, Thanks for linking this valuable post about love to WQW this week. It’s a popular topic. Your post would be a great start for a found poem. (One that uses the words in any order, maybe even repeating them to form a poem about the topic.) 🙂
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Marsha,
Thanks for coming over for this one …. and I’m happy to pitch it into your post. Being that I’ve written very few poems in my lifetime, I’ll take your word for it and leave the task up to someone who knows what they are doing. 🙂
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Spoken like a true scientist. 🙂
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This post is really lovely. 🙂 Such a universal word “love”. KL ❤
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KL,
Wow … you went back into the archives for this one. Then again, you may be over from Marsha’s. Am I correct? Love is such a big topic, I imagine another walk in the future on the topic.
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Aww, yes I popped over from Marsha’s, I always like to have a look through the other links she posts when time is allowed. Always so inspiring. KL ❤
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