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I like walking on the beach. It is good for the mind, body, and soul – and refreshing on the feet.
This walk is not about what belongs to him, her, or me. It’s not about possessions. It’s about acceptance, connection, fellowship, affinity, association, community, and integration – to be included – to feel a sense of belonging.
The idea occurred to me the other day while reflecting on my life. I wondered: What did I want in life? What did I seek or desire? When did I feel the best? These questions are the ones that led me to think about belonging.
Belonging is a feeling – a sense gathered through individuals, groups of people, and even places.
Belonging is a sense of trust, confidence, and security – a sense of closeness – even stability.
Belonging is a positive experience – yet I think about those desiring belonging, but others shunned away for one reason or another.
I think about belonging as a basic need of all humans. It’s not the only need but belonging deserves a place alongside survival, freedom, love, respect, and fun.
I think back to my youth wondering about the people I treated with some version of meanness. Kids can be cruel to others because they don’t realize everyone desires belonging. Adults are a little better but still have a way to go.
I think about the sense of belonging I felt during my five years in the college marching band because it gave me self-worth and pride. I served with enthusiasm and pride – then cried like a baby after the last performance. A feeling that culminated in my sense of belonging that would be no more.
I think about the people who gave me a sense of belonging, such as the selective co-workers who respected my thoughts while realizing we were all in it together. They are special to me – especially those that I felt in their absence once they retired or moved on. Yes, they gave me a sense of belonging.
As a contrarian thinker, I laugh at thinking of the sense of belonging I felt after changing careers. While attending a local professional meeting, I felt that sense of belonging when I realized I disagreed with most people who spoke.
I think about how culture provides a sense of belonging. The European immigrants of the late 1800s to early 1900s packed up their families and some personal possessions to move to an unknown land in another part of the world while leaving much behind. The sense of belonging is why neighborhoods became known as Little Italy, Chinatown, and others.
Visiting northern Tuscany gives me a sense of belonging. Walking the streets of my mother’s hometown warms my heart. Traveling up the valley toward Bagni di Lucca touches my soul. Eventually reaching the road leading me up the mountain to the small village near its summit stirs my past. The home of my paternal grandparents. A place that I have documentation of my family back to at least 1560. Yes, this place gives me a sense of belonging and is part of the reason leading me to dual citizenship late in my life.
Perhaps a sense of belonging is a reason for some to blog – or for long-time bloggers (like me) to keep doing so. Blogging can be very time-consuming – even addictive. Like anything in life, balance is important, but I admit the sense of belonging here because of what others give to me – not me to them.
I think about how the elements of culture provide a sense of belonging. Language, customs, dress, music, arts, food, attitudes, and more aspects of culture provide a sense of belonging that links people together. Yes, older generations worry about younger generations losing a sense of cultural belonging – but the young will not forget their sense of belonging as they establish new ones.
This place with this beach is only my residence for two months of the year. Its long stretch of soft, whitish sand with milder temperatures that are warmer than home gives me a sense of belonging. My lifestyle as an alter ego removed from the normal routine of home is also part of the sense of belonging. So is listening to the local musicians, renewing the new friendships we’ve established here, and making new ones – plus walking the beach
I’ve enjoyed thinking about belonging today. Belonging is more than just language, heritage, place, home, and associations – but they are all important pieces of belonging. Besides, I know I belong here because I like walking on the beach. It is good for the mind, body, and soul – and refreshing on my feet.
See what other bloggers have posted about Belonging
- Belonging to Yourself (an essay)
- Belonging: connection (a poem)
- All We Want a Sense of Belonging (a personal religious essay)
- Sense of Belonging (a short essay)
Next Post: Elements – Saturday 9th September @ 1 AM (Eastern US)
Thank you for sharing your thoughts. Being remembered by a time and place feels like belonging to me.
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Debra,
“Time and place” is such an interesting thought in itself. Heck, I’ve already had four different essays about time – and two more are on the way. Then again, I think of the people in the cemetery as names that maybe nobody knows within a generation or two of there passing. Thanks for walking along.
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I like the Maya story that to remember someone who loved, they hold a living place in your consciousness, and they remember someone before, and so it connects a circle of life all the way back to the beginning. If we were grateful for every experience that taught us something, we could cover everyone. 🙂
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Love the crazy video, Frank! It’s funny because, before I even saw that, I was about to remark on the sense of belonging amongst the groomsmen and my son’s long term friends, strengthened if anything by Covid. And I know it’s the same for my daughters group of close friends. And the wonderful thing was that I felt included.
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Jo,
Glad you enjoyed the fun video. The Piano Guys are one of my favorite sources for these walks. This one was also timely for your recent family celebration. Great thought about COVID’s impact. It interesting how some relationships where strengthened during that crazy time – yet others drifted away. Thanks for sharing!
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Hi Frank, as always so many things to think about in this post. Not all kids are mean to outsiders. When Michael started school he befriended a Russian boy who couldn’t speak any English. The friend learned English and they became firm friends. They are still friends to this day although this boy left South Africa many years ago. Contrary thinker, I like that ❤️
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Robbie,
Good point because I all/everyone are deceiving descriptors. (Hopefully I didn’t include them). Thanks for sharing the story about your some and the newcomer. The fact they are still friends today speaks to the impact of that initial meeting. Yep – the negative aspect of being a contrarian is that I often stand alone in my thoughts. Because of that, there are still times I keep my thoughts to myself. Have a good weekend.
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I think I am also a contrary thinker and a backwards planner – gosh 💕
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Cheers to that!
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It’s good to feel part of something, Frank.
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Tom,
Absolutely – and that is very much part of being human.
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I know what you mean about the feelings that surge when you go to your homeland…I feel similarly when I go to he Netherlands, or even just across the border to my own country of origin; Canada.
Belonging is an innate necessity for people, since we are not islands…well, maybe a hermit might disagree, LOL!
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Ingrid,
Thanks for supporting my thoughts about the sense of belonging the homeland gives … and to think you have two! 🙂 Nonetheless, not everyone understands that. I love your closing thought about belonging being a necessity and that we aren’t islands. That’s a great analogy!!!! Thanks for sharing.
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Robert Frost said, “Home is the place where, when you have to go there, they have to take you in.” We all need a sense of belonging. Thanks for a very thoughtful piece.
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Gary,
That is a good one … and one that may make it into a future essay about Home. Thanks for sharing!
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Nothing is more uncomfortable than being in a place where you don’t feel you belong…..I’ve felt that many times in my life – now in my later years I finally feel I belong……”Home is where the heart is” and I belong here, safe and sound and after years of searching for……something……I feel like I’ve found it.
Pam
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Pam,
Growing up in a military family that was on the move, I imagine establishing a sense of belonging wasn’t easy. Then again, it also provided you with some life experiences that most of us didn’t encounter. Yet, as we get age, we have a tendency to be a bit for accepting of others as we try to give them a sense of belonging. Thanks for sharing.
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Good morning, Frank!
I think it would be difficult to live without some feeling of belonging–or perhaps connection.
I laughed at your contrarian thinker, but finding kindred spirits to be contrary with. 😊
And I agree that writing and keeping up with a blog is very time-consuming but also rewarding in that it can connect one with so many people from around the world.
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Merril,
Good morning. Belonging and connection are very much about being human – yet, it is amazing that for whatever reason there are reasons that those two don’t seem to come together with a person with the situation around them. Then again, maybe there is a reason and the person doesn’t realize it. In terms of blogging, the strength of the connection with other bloggers is something I never imagined when I started. Meanwhile, my contrarian does come in handy when I’m in a group who is open to different perspective. While a member on a state professional board, a fellow member told me I was the best devil’s advocate they have ever been around. I responded by saying I wasn’t being a devil’s advocate because I was just being myself. 🙂 Thanks for walking along.
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You’re welcome, Frank! 😊
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I think the feeling that you belong somewhere, or with a person or a group is one of the best feelings around. Nice post, Frank!
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Dan,
No doubt about it! A positive sense of belonging is definitely a powerful force because if affects so much other behaviors. 🙂
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Belonging, interesting. I was recently asked where would you say you are from if asked. As often we identify ourselves by the area we are born in or a city live in. Many of my friends easily replies, Counties, or cities. I relied as a Finn. I have moved so many times. I have actually lived the longest period of time where i now live, but I don’t have a sense of belonging to the area, my home yes area , no. Belonging – such a funny and complex thing. It had me thinking. Congratulations on duel citizenship
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Ritva,
I like your answer! … On a recent trip someone was asking where everyone was from … most people answer by country …. but two people stated Texas and Quebec. Interestingly, in my opinion, to places that have numerous people who would like to separate from their country. When I ask the question, but one says they moved a lot, I may get more specific …. birthplace, graduated from high school or college, living now, etc. Nonetheless, the place is very personalized. The dual is something that I’ve thought about for many, many years … so I saw it as a gift to myself. Thanks for sharing your thoughts.
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I think belonging and home are intertwined. Where do we feel at home? It doesn’t have to be a place. (K)
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Kerfe,
That is an interesting thought to ponder … thank you. After all, two others also mentioned home above.
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It’s a natural connection I think.
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Amazing video Frank! I loved it!
A sense of belonging is as strong in us as the need to breathe. Most of us reach a place where we feel we belong, but sadly, not everyone. It’s a horrible feeling to walk into a room full of people and your first thought is, “ I don’t belong here.”
Maybe those of us who have found our sense of belonging can try a little harder to help others find theirs.
Nice day for a walk on the beach. I wore sneakers today. No feet to clean!
Ginger
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Ginger,
Glad you enjoyed the closing video. I’m a long-time fan of The Piano Guys, and feel I need to work them in more. 🙂 Belonging is a powerful source … and important. Agree … people need to try harder to incorporate others – especially newcomers! Thanks for sharing!!!
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It is interesting that your background lead to a second citizenship. That is testimony to honoring your past generations.
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John,
The dual is something that I’ve thought about for most of my life … and then finally acted on it as a gift to myself. Some people don’t understand it, but the ones who know enough of my background like that I did it. But yes – a sense of belonging had a lot to do with it.
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Good for you. 😊
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Thank you, kind sir
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Belonging looks different for everyone, and even the meaning can be different. I know people whose sense of belonging is nil or close to it, and then I know other people who have an intense desire to belong. I guess I fall in the middle.
The Yankees belong to last place, this season.
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Marc,
Belonging is definitely personal – therefore different for each of us. Meanwhile, it seems your Yankees are doomed for the cellar.
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Lovely and deeply important blog post, Frank. Last week teachers went back to school, and much of our staff development centered on ‘together’, which is belonging. The school year can be difficult (as you know), but with fellow teachers – who truly have a strong sense of belonging and togetherness – we are happy and stronger.
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Jennie,
The group sense of belonging is a powerful support group. It’s great that your staff has that sense. Thanks for sharing.
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I feel very lucky, Frank. Thank you.
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I think you’re right about a sense of belonging in our blog community.
When I come here to read a post, I feel I belong here.
I make no $$ blogging, but I have made friends.
Now why do Rocky & Bullwinkle pop into my mind?
Was it Boris who said fiends are just friends without the r?
To me the best belonging in my life has been – https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=2JMx2s79Ri4
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Resa,
Oh my – any reference to Rocky & Bullwinkle gets my attention. One of the all-time great shows!!! But a quick search seems to credit The Grim Adventures of Billy and Mandy for that quote – but maybe they stole it from Boris! Cheers to us meeting through blogging. Clink! …. and thanks for the Bee Gees.
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Never heard of “The Grim Adventures of Billy and Mandy”. They must have stole it! Moose and Squirrel rule!!!!
LOL! Clink!
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Thieves!
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Yes….Wait!
Eenie Meanie, Chilie Beanie, the spirits are about to speak!
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Mouse and Squirrel rule!!!!
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What a word… belonging! You put it so well, my friend and coincidentally I’m also at a place I belong… by the sea! 😉
Yamas, Frank!
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Marina,
Belonging is a big word with different meanings for each of us. However, I know you love for the sea and your sense of belonging with your time there. Enjoy … Yamas!
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I did, thank you, my friend… but , I’m back.
Yamas!
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“Belonging is a sense of trust, confidence, and security – a sense of closeness – even stability….”.
I like how you describe this.
Often taken for granted, those little and big things in life that give us this sense of belonging.
as to each their own understanding of belonging, very much enjoyed your thoughts on this. .
another wonderful share, Frank 🤍🙏
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Destiny,
Thanks for the kind words. I like the way you put it – that is, often taken for granted. I imagine we know when it’s missing and we desire it, but I wonder how often we take belonging for granted. Hmmm …. Thanks for walking along.
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more words to reflect on… 😁
Thanks for having us along 🙏🤍
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🙂
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Love Love Love the video, Frank! And this is a great reminder of how important it is for us to find where we belong, are accepted, and connect with others. We are made to be social and interactive, not isolated and alone. Wonderful post!
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Lisa,
Thanks for letting me know you enjoyed the video. I take the choice seriously, so you made me smile! The Piano Guys are wonderful!!! Your statement about humans are made to be social is well stated – and a perfect fit with belonging. Thank you for that!
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You are welcome! 😊
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Belonging is so important, especially when we are in hight school. Thank you for this lovely post Frank. Many aspects of belonging are beautifully covered! I admire you for getting dual citizenship! 🙂
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Cheryl,
Thanks for the kind words. Part of getting the dual was a gift to myself. After all, it has been in my mind for most of my life. Meanwhile, teens are hungry for belonging, but in their quest for it, they can also be mean to others. Bad news is teens are the most cruel people on the planet. Good news is that they grow out of it – but are replaced by the next batch.
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I had a similar experience with the first home school group I joined when the girls were only in primary school. Eventually, I realized the group caused me more frustration and no sense of belonging and that was it. Our small group from church has offered us a sense of belonging and the group of bloggers here who meet quite regularly has done the same.
As I was reading your theme, the thought came to me that the word could be split, with “be-longing” something that people need and when it all comes together, you get “belonging.”
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Janet,
Your example is not only a good one about belonging, but also the negative effect. Being dragged down is no fun – and some can get sucked into that thinking that is belonging. Bottom line – get out of there – which you did. 🙂 Meanwhile, I like your take on be-longing. Well done & thanks for sharing!
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I really enjoyed your comment about being a contrarian and experiencing a sense of belonging in a new group when that aspect of your thinking was in evidence. That takes some good self-reflection to realize that. This is a very thoughtful piece, Frank, and I think as I age, more and more I believe the way I respect others also translates into how I connect and feel valued in personal circles and wider society. I think you’ve hit on a very deep subject here, Frank. We all want to belong! Nicely done.
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Debra,
Feeling a sense of belonging after noticing I was disagreeing with so many is a strange feeling. For me, it was like I had never left my previous position! Oh well … such is life as a contrarian. I think someone else mentioned the affect of aging on belonging as they age. I wonder what aspect softens some the human perspective. Thanks for sharing and walking along.
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I think it is an important part of the human experience to feel the sense of belonging Frank. Scientists have shown how important that feeling of connection with others is to our well-being. Amazing you can trace your family back so far! here on Kiawah we are a small island and the sense of community is pretty amazing. Because most everyone moves here without friends or family we tend to form friendships quickly and they become very long-lasting. It’s one of my favorite things about living here. Enjoyed your post as always!
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Tina,
Thanks for the wonderful comment and about the importance of a sense of belonging on Kiawah. Moving to any new place isn’t an easy adjustment – but people being welcoming is a huge help! Thanks for sharing.
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I can relate to the sense of belonging you feel at your beach for two months of the year. I felt that way whenever we stayed on Cape Cod. I feel a little stranded inland here. I also enjoy the sense of belonging to be found in the blogosphere. We humans find ourselves belonging in lots of different places and groups, don’t we?
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Barbara,
Good points … and as social creatures, we encounter belonging (or the lack of) in many interactions. I can see how the inland feeling is a difficult adjustment. Nonetheless, I trust something will happen that will deliver of sense of belonging in your new region! Thanks for walking along.
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When I started to travel as a young adult my father said that if I was ever in any trouble to find a shop that his company ran. He belonged to a multinational organization and he knew that all I had to do was mention his name and I would be taken care of. It was a very comforting feeling. When I joined the police department I joined a fraternity that is worldwide. Had I ever been in trouble I would’ve simply contacted the local police department with my Badge. That sense of belonging evokes a sense of pride. Being Canadian I felt protected when I traveled. It’s the same working for a police department. I felt protected, I belonged. As always, your post made me think… Loved it!
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Pam,
I love your comment because you applied belonging in a way others have not – including me in the essay. Simply, thank you!
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Belonging these days…hmm…that’s a tough one. May I just say, thanks for the walk and leave it at that? Hope you have a good Labor Day.
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Monika,
Times are indeed troubling – but this isn’t the only time we’ve faced troubling times. Maybe a loss of a sense of belonging drives some of the dissatisfaction. Happy Labor Day! …. enjoy and stay cool.
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Happy Labor Day to you. In many ways we seem so disconnected-or perhaps media highlights those disconnection too much so we’re unaware of the good around us. There is still good, right? 😉
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Plenty of good remains … including the Broncos upcoming season!
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🤞🏼 We’ll see, they certainly can’t be as bad as they were last year under Hackett. Right now everyone has shifted their sights to ‘Coach Prime’ after Saturday’s CU upset over TCU. The state has gone absolutely gaga and the team’s home opener this coming weekend against arch-rival Nebraska has gone into overdrive crazy. As I was driving home from visiting my Dad over the past few days, someone on the radio was calling for him to be inducted immediately into the Colorado sports Hall of Fame. What?!?! 🙄 Sure, it was a very entertaining game for sure, but jeez…people need to take a breath.
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Wow … excitement gone wild!!! … I watched the game … so fun!
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Wild is an understatement! Yes, it was a super game and as a lifelong fan, a great 93rd birthday gift to my Dad. He was on cloud 9 but not as crazy at most of the people around, especially sportscasters. It was a terrific birthday celebration. Shedeur Sanders became a household word. I expect a monument to be built in his honor now. Go 🦬!
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Hi Frank – I enjoyed your take on belonging. I nodded at the professional meeting – I have felt that way too many times. I also agree with you on the blogging paragraph, you nailed the joys and the challenges of doing so for a long time. At some point, we know we belong, while we find our own way that doesn’t necessarily agree with others, but it’s ours to enjoy with others in this blogosphere where we all belong together.
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Shelley,
Glad you enjoyed this essay and thanks for strolling along. Belonging is very much a human need – but one thing you mentioned stuck … about in the end a person finds their own way. Well stated …. and cheers to the bloggers are yourself who found a sense of belonging in blogging.
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Thank you for the words of encouragement!
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That mural at the end is breathtaking! Also, this is probably my new favourite version of Pachelbel’s Canon in D.
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Michelle,
When I saw that picture, I new it was perfect to follow the preceding paragraph … so many thanks for noticing. Glad you enjoyed The Piano Guys version of Pachelbel’s Canon … plus the video also visually displays aspects of belonging. Thanks for walking along.
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I have to say I’ve never felt that sense of belonging to any social group, not even the family, not really. That’s not to elicit an “ah” of sympathy, because I do belong. I belong to this Earth, to the country, to this corner of it, to the trees and streams and beaches. And I belong to me. That last is so important to me.
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Crispina,
The sense of belonging (and the need for it) is different for everyone …. so cheers to the sense that you get from the world around you! No wonder you love to walk in nature. 🙂 ….. and good for you!!!!!
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Yay! 🙂
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Hey Frank,
Sorry I’m so late. I belong to my kitchen during this harvest time. Only this time, for the first time, I have a partner – my son Iain – and there has been much enjoyment in this sentiment.
Belonging or needing to belong is such an individual thing. I remember when I felt a burning need to belong to a group. Now? Not so much. That said, there is a definite special feel to the blogging world; we belong to a certain type of wonderful group.
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Oh! And I forgot to say that ironically, I showed this very same video to my son two days ago!
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Oh wow … cheers to our serendipitous moment!
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Indeed!
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Dale,
I recall Iain having the passion for cooking … so extra cheers for him maintaining it! I know the kitchen is a sacred place for you … and having him join you must be special … make that extra special! Thanks for sharing!!!
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Yes. He is rather adventurous. Two versions of mead are bubbling on my table as well as two different jars of fermenting veggies. But working side-by-side has been quite the joy.
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That’s awesome … and adventurous is an indeed way to learn!
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It is! (Minus the mess)
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So much warmth and love in your beautiful post on belonging. Love the video.
I too think our blogosphere truly creates such a genuine and supportive feeling of belonging. Another great post Frank…. Thank you!❣️❣️
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Cindy,
Belonging is an important topic – and very human – but the need differs with each of us. Meanwhile, the support and the sense of belonging in the blogosphere is remarkable! Thanks for walking along.
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It really is and we are lucky to belong in our own favorite places and ways. It’s a pleasure💞
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Hi, I missed this post for some reason but I am glad I kept it and have just finished reading it. Belonging is truly something that we need and is very comforting. When I was working for that famous British airline I felt as if I belonged to a crazy, wonderful eclectic club where we all belonged simply because we were misfits, who loved travelling, and living that crazy lifestyle. It was fantastic. It is one of the few places I ever felt that I truly belonged. I didn’t really appreciate it until I left. Homesickness is uncurable for nomads! Great post Frank.
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Cristina,
Absolutely … belonging is something that we need and it is comforting. in short, belonging is very human. Cheers to the sense of belonging you got at the airline. Your homesickness line made me laugh – but I also saw it as reality. Thanks for sharing … and I’m glad you kept the notification around as a reminder to read this essay. 🙂
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A very thought provoking post, aFrank. It bears thinking about.
I had to laugh when you added – your bit of meanness – in your explanation.
I was probably the one you were being mean too. I hated the teasing and plain
lack of compassion for others. I guess it’s something we need to go through. It
helped when I was dancing. No one wants to be friends with the good dancers.
The competition is fierce. Well … anyway, I do think I’ll read this again.
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Isadora,
Good to know that you found this essay to be thought-provoking. I smile because that is always one of my goals. I describe teenagers are the meanest people on Earth. Good news is most of them will grow out of it. Bad news is they will be replaced by the newest batch. Thanks for sharing your thoughts.
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I can apply your thoughts to something that I experienced and still do when I meet with colleagues in my profession, We didn’t always like one another, some of us, BUT we were all in it together and went through the same things together. It became an unbreakable bond that stays till this moment. When we meet in a group…we forget everything but work so to speak, and still share shop talk if you will. With laughter and fun. Shared by all regardless of personal differences. I think what I am saying here goes to your point. See you on Tuesday morning long about 0800.
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In other words, I belong and just as my cat does, I roll in that sense of belonging.
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Really like your take on belonging, Frank. Belonging is so many things. Sometimes it’s a feeling we get around someone or a group. Sometimes it is a pull to a certain place. So agree that cultural traits like language, customs and food contribute to the experience of belonging. To some of us these may be small things, but they speak volumes when it comes to feeling your authentic self and connecting to a wider group and greater whole. I hope you get to enjoy that beach even though it is only for a couple of months a year 🙂
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Hi , Frank….requesting a favour please. May I quote a line or two from this essay of yours and link up this post for one of my posts please? 🙏🤍
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Absolutely!!!!!
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thank you , Frank 🤍🙏
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Oh, I wish I had read this first… – agree totally 😊Suzanne
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