209 – Time v5

I dedicate this essay to my readers because these are your words from the previous beach walks about time. All I did was edit and attempt to give them a common voice. Thank you for sharing your insights! 

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Time is relative. We decide its importance depending on our experiences at the moment. Time can feel long, but when we look back, we realize time is just a blip. 

Some say time is the past, present, and future, but does the present exist? As soon as we acknowledge a moment, it’s already past. The present is a mere flash quickly vanishing into the past. It’s a bit odd to think of it that way – but once that’s in my head, I can only see it that way – so it’s difficult to see it any other way. Maybe this is why some say time is philosophical. 

Others say time doesn’t exist because we made up time. On the other hand, we only made up methods of tracking time but not time itself. Calendars, watches, and clocks – but at least sundials track nature. Is time real?

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Nature doesn’t have a clock as we know it, but birds seem to know when it’s time to migrate. Trees know when it’s time to lose their leaves. Fish know when to migrate and spawn. Even those crazy cicadas know when to emerge from the ground after 17 years of development. 

Not knowing the time delivers a sense of freedom – not wearing a watch while on vacation – not wearing a watch during retirement – not wearing a watch when time doesn’t matter. Our pets sense when we return home or if we missed their mealtime – and they let us know without using a time device. 

Dreams can take us to a different time and place – a time in the future – a time in the past – a time in an alternate reality – a fantasy as if the dream turned time inside and out.

Is time a trap? I sometimes feel that way – a feeling of being trapped in a bubble – a feeling of free fall – but I think time will eventually answer my question because we know time will tell.

Is my time actually time? If time is mine, why do I waste it? If I have time, why do I have minimal energy to use it? But, I’m grateful for the time I have on this earth and hope I use it wisely – but realize I don’t necessarily succeed.

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Time meant nothing during lockdown; only the changing seasons and day/night mattered. Now that life is back to normal, we should use time, not save it. I often remind myself that I get the same 24 hours as Mother Theresa, Madame Curie, or George Washington – so how I use time is up to me.

Some say they wish the day was longer to have more time to do what must be done. Others say a longer day would put us further behind because we wouldn’t wisely use the extra time.

Ever notice how retailers warn us that time is running out? Or how some religious people revel in the idea that we’re nearing the end of times? Maybe that’s why I love bourbon because the makers insist I take my sweet time with their product. 

Relating time to one’s life can be a sobering thought – especially considering knowing my life is much closer to the end than the beginning. So yes – cherish time and use it wisely – and yes, those are two things many people have trouble with.

I think about time a lot, maybe because the sands of my hourglass are getting thin. After all, time touches us all in different ways as we age. Time seems to gallop nowadays, but I remember when I was young and it stretched endlessly. Yet, time is consistent – the same then and now.

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Time is a measurement of life and many things within life. I’m now retired, so I don’t have to be as aware of time as I did during my working life. The fact I’m also on the far side of life, I think about time more. I would like to think I haven’t wasted the time I was given in this life, but I know better. It’s difficult to remember that in the grand scheme of life, time is a gift.

Age has taught me that I cannot slow down or speed up time, but I can control how I use it. I want as much as possible from my remaining time. Whether it means staying busy or quietly watching a tree lose its leaves, all I can do is do the best I can control what I can control. Maybe the people having a 90-year-old parent may make it easier to imagine a long life, but I’m keenly aware that none of us know when it’s our last day. I do try to be grateful for each one! 

Time is about a person’s time – the last second, a given hour, any day now, until next time, on the dot, a long time coming, and working against the clock – but only time will tell because one’s life here is a question of time.

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“What, exactly, will time tell? Will it tell me that my days are numbered? Personally, I’d like to think that my days are worded because my days are stories, one-by-one as a child, then a dozen, then hundreds as the years roll on.” (Pam Wight @ The Hourglass of Our Life | roughwighting)

The subject of time offers seemingly endless opportunities to ponder. Although this is the fifth essay on the subject, I have at least one more. It will be unique but published at an unknown time. After all, I like to walk on the beach. It is good for the mind, body, and soul – and refreshing on my feet.

I’m linking to Jo’s Monday Walk featuring a collection of intriguing photos. Tell her I sent you.

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100 thoughts on “209 – Time v5”

  1. When I read your thoughts, or posts you share based on comments you receive, I often see my own thoughts mentioned. However, in this post, you didn’t mention an aspect of time which affects people living in my area every year. I live in the far north of the state of New South Wales, where for six months of every year – October to March – our clocks are turned forward for an hour, We are currently running on daylight savings time. Around ten minutes drive to the north is the state of Queensland. They do not operate on daylight savings time, causing great confusion between the two areas. Perhaps you mentioned different time zones in a previous post on time. Or maybe it will be covered in a future post?

    Another thought provoking post, Frank, and I am pleased you noted the way in which birds and animals are aware of time, without the need for clocks and watches. Clever little creatures, aren’t they? 🙂

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    1. Joanne,
      I always wonder if readers ever notice their comments embedded in this type of essay. 🙂 Then again, there is usually a lot of time in between making the comment and reappearing in an essay. Meanwhile, time is such a large topic that every aspect of time won’t be mentioned in every essay. There is confusion about time along every time zone border any time of the year … well, when and where there are people involved. Even here in the US, we have States who don’t use DST. Meanwhile, time marches on with or without participants. After all, there was a time when nobody used DST. Thanks for walking along.

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  2. We all have an innate sense of time, don’t we? But it’s not always accurate, any more than my watch, when I forget to wind it (yes, I do still have one of those). Time is a subject that frightens me, Frank, because I’m well aware that mine is running out. So what am I doing ‘wasting’ so much of it on WP every day? I’m sure you’ll have an answer for that. Thanks for the link, hon.

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    1. Jo,
      Good point about having an innate sense of time … even those regularly working in second and third shifts of life. Oh … I still have a watch – and most often wear it on vacations. But it doesn’t require winding … charges in light. 🙂 Like you, I also think about my time running out. I still recall a friend telling him on his 50th birthday that he realized his life is more than half over … and that was 21 years ago! I think our thoughts are common, but like everyone else, we don’t know when that time will come. Meanwhile, we keep doing what we gives us pleasure … and that connection with people around the world is not only important, but a difficult link to break. How’s that answer? 😉 Thanks for sharing your thoughts.

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  3. Time is such a fascinating subject. Well, it fascinates me! 🙂
    There are so many ways to look at it–time as a concept, seasonal time, and clock-time (pre and post industrial). I think each individual feels time differently.

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    1. Merril,
      I agree … time is a fascinating subject. After all, your appreciation with the subject emerges in your poems. Yep – I too think each of us feel time differently … then again, much of the feeling is based on the personal circumstances affecting us at the time. Nevertheless, time is something we’ll never conquer – but that doesn’t stop us from trying! 🙂 Thanks for sharing.

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  4. I enjoyed reading your followers’ takes on time. I’m feeling that we’re already at the middle of December and the last 3 years have been the longest and the shortest at the same time, where has the time gone, and were we just in some kind of weird time warp? 🤔🧐⏰

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    1. Shelley,
      First of all, and most important to me, thank you for recognizing these are thoughts from the readers. It’s their wonderful insight that I’ve attempted to string together into something meaningful. As saying goes, time flies like an arrow – fruit flies like a banana. 🙂 I couldn’t resist. I have grabbed onto something that someone said to me many years ago about time. In our youth, time seems to move slowly because the young live in anticipating something. As we get older, the world shifts from anticipating to facing deadlines – the latter seems to compress deadlines … and after reaching the deadline, we tackle another deadline. Just a thought about your time warp because December is a time for deadlines. Thanks for walking along and sharing.

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    1. Cheryl,
      Thank you because combining the words of others into a common voice and something seemless isn’t an easy task – but I try. I typically select photographs to fit the previous paragraph – and there was something about that one that hit me. Thanks for the holiday wishes … and blessings to you in the season of the light.

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  5. I love the quote Endless Weekend shared.

    I am definitely closer to the end of my time here on Earth than the beginning, but the bottom line is I guess I haven’t reached my expiration date yet! I wonder if we were all born with “Best If Used By” dates, if we would make better use of our time. Methinks not!

    However we use our time, it’s always there. Time may get away from us, but it never goes away. We probably should add time to death and taxes being the only things that are certain!

    I had a great time reading your post and all the comments from your readers.

    I have several things to accomplish today, but only time will tell if I succeed!

    Happy Thursday Frank. Hope you take some time to have fun! Ginger

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    1. Ginger,
      You are an absolute treasure – and however you found this blog, thanks for doing so! Love the “best if used by” thought … and I agree on the not! But here’s the sentence that struck me the most … “Time may get away from us, but it never goes away.” … simply WOW …. and probably one for volume 7 (well … if there is one) … after all, v6 is in the queue and coming soon. Hope the time in your day has worked out like you hoped. Thanks for sharing.

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      1. Now it’s my turn to say “WOW” for your kind words Frank. You have me blushing. Wait, my red cheeks may be from being out in the cold, or eczema or too much blusher applied! Hard to tell any more. 🤗 But your kind words warmed my heart. Thank you. Ginger

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  6. What a great description of time Frank! You made me realise again how amazing animals are that have their own version of time. And although time always remains the same (as you rightly mention here), it’s funny how time passes slowly when you are in school (and young) and then it speeds up as we get older!

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    1. Corna,
      Thank you for the kind words. Keep in mind these are comments from readers that I’ve attempted to string together with a common voice into something meaningful. This is volume 5. I wrote volumes 1 & 2, and then if memory serves my correctly, volumes 3 & 4 were based on comments from v1 & v2 …. therefore this post and a future volume 6 are again based on reader comments but from v3 and v4. I wouldn’t be surprised if v7 in the long term – again based on reader comments. Please scroll up to see my response to Shelley because I mention how age affects the perception of time … well, at least in my view. Thanks for walking along and sharing.

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  7. I constantly am running up against “time” in my entertainment choices, Frank. Lots of time travelling involved, and I admittedly would like to have that stellar ability to revisit some of my past exploits and see if my current memories align 100% with the past reality. I know sometimes over time people can “rewrite” some of their narratives, whether conscious of it or not. Maybe before my time is up, we’ll all be able to take backward trips with our forward selves and satisfy such curiosities.

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    1. Dale,
      Sure … I enjoy thinking about and then writing these essays. It’s my nature – but I also love reading the insight from readers. Who knows how many times I’ve thought, “Wish I would have written that.” I guess these extra volumes is a way to get those thoughts out. So yes – cheers to my readers who enlighten me and others. )

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      1. I loved it and then I reread the essay and there was so much to it that I ended up not mentioning the fact that it felt wonderful to see one of my quotes in your immense fascinating, intense essay. I was amazed at how much time you took to explain time in so many different ways. 😍

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  8. Your mother is 90? That’s amazing, Frank. My mom, too, is in her ninth decade. Nice to hope that we’ve inherited those genes, huh? After all, there’s just sooo much I want to do — and time does have a way of getting away from us. You’re 100 percent right in that our pets “know” time in ways we don’t. Monk seems to have a sixth sense about time (though this time-change still has him flummoxed, ha!)

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    1. Debbie,
      Oh my … you could a major mistake. Thank you. That’s one of the issues I face when working with other people’s words. That is, sometimes editing slips through my fingers. A reader made the comment about having a 90 year old mother – so I rushed in to change it. Thanks for catching it. Meanwhile, I don’t think our pets are worrying about time slipping away. 🙂

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  9. I had to come back again because I just came across a quote about time from Thoreau in “Walden.”

    “Time is but the stream I go a-fishing in. I drink at it; but while I drink I see the sandy bottom and detect how shallow it is.”

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  10. Argh…. The Clock… Time is what we make it… 🙂
    I gave up wearing a watch when I left work to retire… My world was ruled by Time for my working life.. … Now I make the most of my time.. 🙂 by not paying too much attention to it… Just living in the NOW..
    And happy I caught your Post Frank… xx in this NOW moment of Time xx ❤ 😉

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  11. I think you wove your readers’ ideas into a very coherent essay, Frank. I remain acutely aware any day could be my last, but it doesn’t keep me from “wasting” time. Is it really wasted just because we aren’t doing anything productive? I can’t get behind that idea.

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  12. Frank, I had to keep reminding myself that these thoughts came from a whole variety of readers! As I recently hit 60, I find myself almost unable to comprehend the decades past, and wondering what the future holds. Time, it can boggle the mind. But I also feel the need, almost a sense of urgency, to utilize the time I have remaining on this earth to enjoy experiences with those I love, and to do some good and make a difference in other people’s lives. Time is certainly something to ponder…

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    1. Lisa,
      Thanks for recognizing the role readers played in this essay. Time definitely boggles the mind … and while we ponder it and try to manage it, it just marches on to its own beat. …. and then we reach of certain age when we start wondering about our time – especially what’s left & how we are going to use it …. and I certainly don’t wish anyone a life of Alzheimer’s and dementia. What a horrible way to fade away while hanging on to time. Thanks for walking along and sharing.

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  13. You make some very valid points! I do think that the calendar year is simply something we made up, but as you say, time is very real. How we think of it and react to it says a lot about how we view life.

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    1. Ann,
      There are many wonderful thoughts about time in this post. After all, they are not mine – but a collection of comments by readers that I tried to weave together into something coherent. Thumbs up to the wonderful perspectives they’ve shared with me. Not question we invented calendars to track time … Gregorian and Julian to name a few … but there are many others – especially in the ancient world. Suddenly you got me wondering about another time invention -time zones!!!! Thanks for walking along and sharing.

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  14. I am honored that you used one of my quotes. I have to tell you everything that you say about time here resonates with me and with some of my blog posts and stories that it all merged together. But when you mentioned the bubble, I thought, I hope Frank reads my silly suds post today. 😚

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  15. This piece brought to mind why I think we remember the days lasting forever when we were younger. I think it’s because we didn’t pay attention to clocks and schedules. On a summer day I would go out in the morning, check in from time to time and then return for dinner. No clocks, just an understanding. It was more enjoyable in that way.

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  16. Normally time ebbs and flows…but today has been a true cluster you-know-what. Naturally technology is behind that. Boy, when will IT specialists stop ‘fixing things that aren’t broken. I’ve spent all afternoon trying to resolve a new OS update. And there’s no way to reverse it back. 😭 All I can do is forewarn others to NOT update their Apple watches to the latest software. You’ll do nothing but be aggravated.

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  17. “I think about time a lot, maybe because the sands of my hourglass are getting thin. After all, time touches us all in different ways as we age. Time seems to gallop nowadays, but I remember when I was young and it stretched endlessly.”

    I can really relate to this, Frank – I was just thinking how quickly we find ourselves at the end of another year … Hope the closing of December brings many a smile as you look forward to many more walk in 2024.

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  18. We may not have invented time but we named it. We do that. We like to name things because we think that gives us control over it. It does not.. Time will pass whether we are looking or not. How we react within that time helps to define us.

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  19. A beautiful and thoughtful write on time and how we view it from past through the present, and to the future. We measure the duration of events or the intervals between them as “time”, as we age time seems to speed up, a phenomenon. Thank you for this wonderful post Frank, it really makes one think about life and how we are using time. ☀️

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    1. Holly,
      Hello, south Florida! Time is quite the subject and it is a great constant in life – yet its perception is a phenomenon (thanks for the great choice of a word). Fortunately for me, the reader provide many great insights for me to craft into an essay – so credit to them! Hope all is well and thanks for walking along.

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  20. I’ve always found this specific aspect interesting… more intriguing. As through each phase of our lives we go through, how we interpret time – always different and to us the meaning changes yet it is time that is constant with no change. Faithful it’s tick… at some stages seen as a faithful friend at others a faithful foe… ( if that makes sense 😬) everything changes but time…

    Thank you, Frank. a walk certainly worth the time 🤍🙏

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    1. Destiny,
      Your comment not only makes absolutely sense, I like your wording. 🙂 Time seems to be an endless subject. I have one more time essay coming soon that is based on comments by readers (like this one). Because of comments like yours, I’ve got the feeling volume 7 my unexpectedly happen. Thanks for sharing your insight!

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  21. Time does seem to rush by faster than it used to. Maybe that comes with getting old. It is a good time to let it slow down a bit, to enjoy the season and maybe a few minutes with friends. All the best to you for the coming times!

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    1. Ludwig,
      Thank you for the best wishes. The perception of the pace of time is an interesting thought on its own. Interestingly, see the string of comments starting with Shelley for some ideas. (Easier for me to point you that way than restate everything. Thanks for walking along and chiming in.

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  22. I was short on time, and took a long time to get here, and its almost time for your next essay!
    Whoa.

    A timely essay of very wise words. Thanks!

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  23. I like your recognition that we all have the same 24 hours in a day! I have such a different relationship to time the further I get from my retirement date 7 years ago. I think back to how harried I always was, and how much I love having the freedom to navigate time according to my chosen pace. During the pandemic lock down I took note of how much I enjoyed the slow pace. I might not have enjoyed the circumstances, but I did like being slow! I’ve tried to keep that going. As the sands in my own hourglass continue to thin, I don’t want to speed up a thing. LOL!

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